What to Say to Expired Listings: Scripts That Get Callbacks (Not Hangups)

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Knowing what to say to expired listings is the difference between a 15-second hangup and a 4-minute conversation that ends in an appointment. Most agents call with the same opener every competitor uses, "I noticed your home came off the market," and the prospect sounds annoyed before they finish their first sentence. The problem isn't the script. It's that you're saying the same thing the 12 agents before you already said.

This post is part of our complete real estate cold call scripts guide, but expired listings deserve their own deep dive. They're the highest-converting outbound source, and the most competitive. Every agent with a dialer is calling the same list. What you say in the first 10 seconds determines whether you get a conversation or a click.

Here's how to stand out: a diagnostic approach that changes what you say based on what you actually know about the listing, plus scripts tailored to how long the property has been off market.

Diagnose Before You Dial: The 60-Second Pre-Call Framework

Most agents treat expired listings like a numbers game: pull the list, start dialing, read the script. The agents who convert at 2-3x the average do something different. They spend 60 seconds researching the listing before they pick up the phone.

Here's what to look for:

Days on market (DOM). Was it listed for 14 days or 180? A listing that expired after 2 weeks tells a different story than one that sat for 6 months.

List price vs. comparable sales. If they were listed 15% over comps, you already know the conversation: it was a pricing problem.

Photos and listing presentation. Take 10 seconds to pull up the original listing photos. Dark rooms, cluttered counters, no staging. You now have something specific to say: "I noticed the photos on the original listing didn't really showcase the kitchen. That's one of the first things I'd change."

This diagnostic approach changes your tone, too. When you know why the home didn't sell, you sound confident instead of fishing. It's the same principle behind a strong cold call opener: preparation beats improvisation every time.

Expired Listing Scripts Based on Timing

Not all expired listings are the same. A homeowner whose listing expired yesterday is in a completely different emotional state than someone whose listing expired three months ago. Your script needs to match that state.

Fresh Expireds (0-14 Days Off Market)

These sellers are frustrated, overwhelmed, and getting hammered with calls. They've heard "I noticed your home came off the market" fifteen times today. You need a pattern interrupt, and the pre-call diagnosis gives you one.

This works because it immediately differentiates you. Every other agent is calling blind. You called with homework done. That shifts the dynamic from "another salesperson" to "someone who actually understands my situation."

The key phrase is "even if you decide to go a different direction." It removes pressure and makes the homeowner feel safe continuing the conversation. Once they say yes, you're in a diagnostic conversation and you can work toward setting the appointment.

Warm Expireds (30-60 Days Off Market)

The initial frustration has faded. These sellers are stuck in uncertainty, wondering whether to try again, lower the price, or pull the house off the market entirely. Your approach shifts from diagnostic urgency to consultative patience.

The "market position has changed" angle gives them a reason to re-engage without admitting the first attempt failed. You're not saying "let me try where the last agent failed." You're saying the situation has evolved, and that's worth a conversation.

Stale Expireds (90+ Days Off Market)

This is the segment most agents ignore entirely, which is exactly why it works. These homeowners have been off every agent's radar for months. The urgency is gone, but so is the hostility. They're open to conversations because they're not in defense mode.

No pressure, no pitch. Just value. Stale expireds convert through nurture, not urgency. The play here is to start a relationship, not book an appointment on the first call. Set a follow-up task for 7 days out and call back with another relevant data point. The agent who stays in touch wins the listing when they're ready, and 40% of "not selling" expireds relist within 12 months.

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What to Say When They Push Back

Every expired listing call hits resistance. These sellers have been burned, and they're skeptical. The three objections below cover 80% of what you'll hear.

"I'm getting calls from every agent in town."

This is frustration, not rejection. Validate it.

"I bet you are, and honestly, most of those calls probably sound exactly the same. That's why I did my homework before calling. Can I help you stop getting calls?"

"We're going to relist with the same agent."

Don't compete. Plant a seed.

"I hear you. Quick question, did they give you a specific plan for what they'd do differently this time? Because if the approach doesn't change, the result usually doesn't either.

"We've decided not to sell."

"That's a big decision. Just to make sure I understand, what was your goal when you listed the home the first time? Where were you going after you sold?"

This converts a dead end into a long-term follow-up opportunity. For more on managing these nurture sequences, see our guide on how often to follow up with real estate leads.

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FAQ

What is the best time to call expired listings? Weekdays between 4-6 PM tend to produce the highest contact rates. The morning rush can work for fresh expireds who haven't been hammered yet, but by afternoon the competition thins out. The key is to call multiple times because they are getting hammered.

How many times should you follow up with an expired listing? At least 5 times over 14 days. Research shows 80% of conversions happen after the fifth contact, but 44% of agents quit after one attempt. Space your follow-up touches across phone, text, and email, each adding new value, not just "checking in."

Do expired listing letters still work? Yes, as part of a multi-channel approach. A personalized letter that references specific details about the property differentiates you from agents who only call. Pair it with a phone call 2-3 days later: "I sent you a letter earlier this week about your home on [Street]. Did you get a chance to read it?"

What should you never say to an expired listing? Never lead with your credentials, production numbers, or awards. The homeowner doesn't care about your achievements. They care about why their home didn't sell and whether you understand the problem. Also avoid "I can sell your home," since it's a promise you can't guarantee and it sounds like every other agent. Lead with diagnosis and questions, not claims.